So much to be thankful for...

1. I am thankful for my God's decision to sacrifice His Son for my sin so that I may live eternally as a child of God..

2. for God choosing Bryan for ME... I feel blessed everyday that I have him as my husband!

3. I can not imagine my life without my Brody... He has brought such JOY into my life.. I read this on someone's status the other day, "God must have thought highly of me to bless me with my children".. I could not have said it better.. God must have thought SO highly of me to bless Bryan and I with Brody... his is so special and makes me a proud mommy everyday!

4. My baby girl Aubry. The moment of her birth the Dr. yelled "She is beautiful!", and she was and still is.. just the most precious, and a little sassy, girl I know. Mother daughter relationships are so special. I think about my relationship with my mom and pray that for Aubry and I. She is the light in her daddy's eyes and the joy in my heart. I am a special mommy to have her in our life.

5. My Dad.. As parents our job is to set the stage for what our children's relationship should be with our God. Dad's death 6 years ago made me realize who God had created me to be. God took my dad and gave me purpose! It's the hardest thing I have gone through in my life but I wouldn't change it. It gives me the opportunity to share with my children that you can love somebody not present! For this I am Thankful!

6. My Mother.. I wouldn't be the mother I am today if it hadn't been for the example I had as a child. My mom was all I ever wanted to be "when I grew up". She demonstrated faith, love, guidance, and patience all situations. I have never heard her give her testimony but I have lived it and it is one of great FAITH in times of turmoil. I feel so blessed to have the relationship that I do with my mom. I love you!

7. My siblings.. I have an older brother, Kyle, and a younger sister, Katie. We are only 2 years apart so you can imagine we were each others playmates growing up. I have so many memories of us "entertaining" one another. sometimes we fought, sometimes we laughed so hard stuff came out our nose, sometimes we got hurt (and we would laugh) but all in all they are the best bro & sis a girl could have!

8. I am thankful and blessed that Bryan and I are apart of the leadership at HWC. I can not imagine a better place to raise our children. They are surrounded by LOTS PKs that I know will be life long friends, not to mention the other pastors and pastors wives that have become dear friends to Bryan and I. God is doing some amazing things at HWC...

9. My marriage.. People get married everyday, but it takes more than vows to make a marriage. It takes God, strength, understanding, patience, communication, and selflessness, to name a few. Bryan and I don't have the "perfect" marriage because we are not perfect, but God gives us the strength and example to make it as perfect as we are able. I am so thankful for that!

10. God has given me amazing friends In each season of my life some of which have been there and known me since grade school, some helped me overcome extreme sadness and greif, some helped me in the most exciting season of life.. the birth of my babies, others helped me become aquainted to a new "home town" by showing love and understanding.. for all those people I am thankful!

11. I am Thankful for our Military! I well up with pride when they are honored. They have such an important job, one that sometimes goes unnoticed. So what a gift to have a whole day set aside to show our appreciation to them. So today I say THANK YOU to all of the soldiers and their families for all you sacrifice..

12. So thankful knowing that when I am faced with "life" I can turn to God for peace. I have a tendency to let anxiety and worry get the best of me. Life is not easy, there are always going to be situation arise that make me feel "anxious" or "worried" so knowing God is bigger than that gives me the PEACE and HOPE I need. His eye is on the sparrow and know He watches me!

13. When you get married you are getting the whole family. I am happy to say that my in-laws are among some of the BEST. They are just very caring christian people that I am proud to call my family. They raised Bryan with such tender care that I know that is why he is the way he is today. Not to mention Brody and Aubry are crazy about them too! They love their P-Paul and Na Na! So thankful for them..

14. I have been gone all day involved in an Art Show put on to benefit Starfish Orphan Ministries. Local artist were invited to come and sell their "craft" to raise funds for the ministry. So, I have to say that today I feel very thankful that I am able to use my gifts to benefit others and help my family as well.

15. Today Aubry and I are sick.. boo :( So I am home with she and Brody and miss being at HWC. It is so nice to be in a place of worship! I have to say that I feel very thankful today that I have the freedom of worship! I can not imagine living somewhere that denied me that right. Thank you God for that freedom.

16. I think it is amazing that a movie, 70 years old, has the ability to keep a child's attention! I am so thankful that I have the opportunity to make these memories with my children. Sometimes we just need to stop and enjoy the little things... Like "The Wizard of Oz"!

17. I am so Thankful that God gave Bryan and I the ability to for me to be a stay-at-home Mom! It is something we felt very called to do and I cherish each second of it. Now granted there are times that are stressful, I call them my "Calgon, take me away" moments :) but I would not change it for the world! We are so blessed!

Aubry's 2nd birthday

We celebrated Aubry's 2nd birthday in August.. we had such a great time with family and friends! Here are some pictures of that day...

Let me catch you up....

The last few months have been filled with tons of things... here are some of the highlights since my last blog entry (forever ago)!
In May we had our annual family vacation. My mom, sister, brother and his wife and two boys along with us went to Newport, RI and enjoyed a week of history, cool weather, and family time.. It is precious to keep the "family vacation" alive.

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All Those Curls...

HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY...

The Phelps Family

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At least we had some fun!!!

So we are now at my mothers and trying to cope under the circumstances. We are enjoying getting to visit with friends and family but are feeling the affects of being away from home for so long. We have been without power for a full 7 days now and are not sure when we will get it back.

The Nattional Guard, including my brothers group, are in Paducah trying to help with whatever it is they can do. We are so thankful for the help but just want "our" life back.

At my moms instead of ice, they got SNOW....and lots of it! The kids got to go out and play in it and had a great time. Here are some of the pictures...hope you enjoy!

The Latest....

As I listen to the news talk about the devastation in Paducah I am so thankful we are here in Fulton. Just a minute ago I heard them say that there are people that had power and now have lost it again...I don't think I could handle that.
They are basically telling people to leave their homes there and find shelter because the temp. is going to get so cold tonight. Paul, Bryan's dad, said that he has never in his lifetime seen it so bad. It is really scary.
I really feel for my kids. They are ready to be in there house, even though it is still new. They know something is up and are showing it in their actions. We were all stir crazy today so we went to Wal-mart...Brody was so excited. As we were walking to the car Bryan and I agreed we wished we had stayed home...It was crazy! I will be glad when we can start to get settled. It seemed like we were almost there and then this happened. I do know it could have been worse so I am thankful, but still, it is frustrating.
Anyway, just keep praying those of you who are. I really appreciate it. Pray for Bryan as he prepares to preach Sunday night unless the church loses power again. As before, I will keep you posted.

Winter Storm 2009

So we have survived so far. It has been scary at times. Just to give you an update.
We had power until 10:00 p.m. Tuesday night. I had just kicked up the heat so we could hold some warmth for a while. Bryan and I sat up the night and listened to the trees fall around us...that was scary. It almost sounded like a war zone with gun fire in the background. We woke up off and on through the night, we were all in bed together.
We stayed in Paducah until about 3:30 p.m. Wednesday. The house had dropped to about 55 degrees. We chipped the van out of ice, managed to get around the millions of trees and branches in the driveway. I had packed some warm things for us all, Bryan had packed a cooler with food to save from the fridge and we loaded the kids not really knowing where we were going.
As we left the subdivision we realized the destruction was everywhere. We thought we would go and get some gas but quickly heard on the radio that there was only one gas station in Paducah with gas and it was in the opposite direction we were going. So we drove on and thought we would just thaw out a little bit then go home but then heard there was a curfew in town and we had almost reached it.
So with nothing to lose and enough gas to get to Fulton we headed that way. We didn't know if Bryan's parents had powered but prayed they did and figured if they didn't we would at least be with family and not in a "still strange" house.
We got here and found that they did not have power but that P Paul had gotten the gas logs to work in the fire place so there was warmth. He also had a generator so we had some light and the bare necessities...coffee according to Bryan and his mother :)
As I sat there last night and in a day dream thought about what could be I was saddened. I quickly snapped out of that day dream by the laughter of my kids playing, so happy and warm! I wanted to cry because it could have been so bad but once again God, the Protector and Father, had once again taken care of his children.
Last night the kids had fallen asleep and we were all getting ready for bed and Paul and Rene' came over to where Bryan and I were sitting and we prayed together. I was so peaceful and made me realize just how blessed I am.
I started to think about the many things I am thankful for but just to name a few....Bryan's mom for her gift of hospitality, Bryan's dad for his gentle spirit, kind heart, love for his family and Gods gift to take care of them, My husband for loving his wife and children and taking care of us, and my mom and sister for their prayer and love for us.
So until next time....Pray!

Too precious...

Heartland Worship Center is a wonderful place that has so many opportunities for my children. One thing that I have been able to take full advantage of is the nursery which is run by one of the BEST women I have met in a long time....as she said, I feel like we have known each other forever. So since our move the kids have been frequenting the nursery program...alot! We go on Sunday morning, Sunday night, Mother's day out on Mondays, Tuesday bible study, Wednesday night church, and then once a month we have date night on Thursday.

So as you can imagine this is a lot for any child but even more for my kids, those of you that know me well understand (they are not away from me a whole lot). Anyway, Aubry has adjusted just fine. She screams for about 30 seconds and then she is fine. Brody on the other hand has had a little harder time. He starts crying about an hour before we leave, then when we get there, and sometimes off and on the whole time he is the nursery. But he is staying and does manage to have fun and not cry. Up until last night I wondered how long this would last. Would he ever go in the room without crying? Would he stop crying long enough to ever meet new friends? Would he ever not want to be with me? These questions lingered in my head as I went to pick them up after church last night. I approached the room quietly and then peered in before announcing my arrival and he was actually PLAYING....with another little boy. The teacher said, "Brody your mommy is here." He turned around and came running over to me. He was so happy to see me. I glowed!

But the true reward was on our way home. As we drove, it was quiet, I knew he was thinking. In his quiet little voice he said, " Mommy always comes back." I replied, "Yes Brody I will, ALWAYS. I am so proud of you for being a big boy. That make me happy." And then he said something that amazed me. It amazed me because It seemed so deep for a just turned 3 year old. "Mommy, he said, I did have fun!?!", almost concerned sounding.  I paused and said, "You know it is ok to have fun..right?" "Yes", he said, "I know."

And that was that. How precious. He is getting too big, too fast. He wasn't my baby boy last night...he was my big boy and I am so proud! 

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Bath Time Fun....

Well the kids had their fist bath in the rental house....just kidding!
Just having a good time with our nightly bath! So cute...had to take some pictures!
In the midst of the bath they discovered the sliding door and we had some pee pie FUN!

Getting Adjusted...

All the boxes are moved and most are unpacked. It has been an exciting week for the Phelps family. Here is our story.....and we’ll stick to it!
It all started last Saturday as we moved all our belongings on to our driveway in Mount Vernon. We said “see ya later” (not goodbye) to loved ones and friends and loaded up 3 trailers and the van and set off to start our new normal in Paducah, KY.
The kids have done GREAT!!!! I was truly worried about how they would adjust but as we know prayer works and they have done just fine.
Bryan and I are great as well. We had our first date with the church staff Thursday night, yes the kids actually stayed with sitters at the church, and we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.
Now, the rental house on the other hand leaves much to be desired. Well, it isn’t all that bad. We are so blessed to have a house and not an apartment, and we are so thankful for that but it has had it’s problems and has made our first week one we not forget....ever! The basement has flooded, the dishwasher leaks, the light in the basement sounds like it could start a fire at any minute....it makes me laugh now when I think about it all. But even in the midst of it all we still feel the peace of knowing we are where God wants us and feel blessed and fulfilled. The message on Sunday was so encouraging and just confirmed again that our visions are one in the same. God is So Good!
As we continue to settle in we are excited about this journey God has called us to. This is truly a place where life long friends will be made and a place where we will add to the list of people that have blessed our lives.

Almost moving day....

Well, most of the boxes are packed. We have said goodbyes to most everyone and we have less than two days left in Mount Vernon. Again I have mixed emotions but feel so excited about our new journey.

God is so good and just today we have witnessed a positive in our leaving First Baptist. People that have felt called to work with our youth but haven't for what ever reason now fell compelled to step out and lead....such a blessing!

We are so excited about all the visitors we will see this summer and look forward to frequent updates from Mount Vernon. We have promised to stay in touch and keep everyone updated with us. Until next time...

Khara